Sunday, November 22, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving

Hey family, sorry i have been gone so long, but just been busy with the holidays coming up & seems like work don't never end. Not to much has happened in my life, my new dermatologist did another biopsy on my scalp to make sure that my diagnosis of porokeratosis was correct, I go tomorrow to remove the stitch, so stay tuned for an update. (my husband & grand baby :)

My locks are now 15 months & all major slippage is gone, I still re tight every 6 weeks they don't seem to be as puffy as before, I let them do there own thang no fuss from me, of course my hands are still in my hair all the time, I don't pop or separate my locks, I shampoo every week (because of my scalp condition) & I deep condition at every shampoo only because the shampoo I am prescribed is really drying to the hair. So to sum up that one long run on paragraph "I LOVE MY LOCKS"!!!!!


*******A comparison from the haircut I received in April '09 to now********




Well the holidays are calling, so you guys have a Happy Thanksgiving!!!
QUESTION: Is it wrong to already have my X-Mas tree up?


Praying 4: Mental, Physical, & Spiritual health 4 U & Me!!!!

Friday, October 23, 2009

Thierry Baptiste

This video was featured on "On The Road to Queendom" I loved for it's creativity, & I hope you will to. ****TURN MY PLAY LIST OFF****


Saturday, October 3, 2009

The worst week EVER!!!

I decided to take a second vacation since our recent trip to Maui really exhausted me, so I wanted some time away from the world. I had my whole week mapped out, I was to cook for my husband 7 days straight compared to my once a week cooking, organize my recipe collection & just do some much needed cleaning & other organizational things, Y'ALL!! this week has been a living HOT nightmare, my vacation started 9-26-09 at 4pm get off work time, I get home & my garage door opener don't work, OK what's up!! $350.00 that's fixed. Now here's where the I be damned kicks in, the NEXT day (Sunday) I'm relaxing in the Queens (that's me) lounge chair & I start to notice DAMN it's hot in here (the A/C unit goes out), I call AHS (home warranty) they don't come out till 3 days later, when they finally do they say it's the fan motor we'll order the part paid my service fee & now I'm waiting, (STILL waiting 13 days later), not the end of my turmoils as I go to work on organizing my recipe collection I find out that my freakin' all-in-one printer is not working won't do NOTHING, and as for cooking & cleaning the heat from no A/C killed that dream, & last but not least due to my Keratosis it caused a really bad skin infection under my right breast with very painful sores (gross huh), anyhoo I had a Dermatologist apt. for Monday but had to reschedule cause I got lost (2 hour drive away) so Tuesday finally made it to the Derm. they faxed my prescription in to my local Walgreen's I figured 2 hrs to drive home my medicine will be ready when I got there 1 prescription was ready they had to order the 2ND one which was an antibiotic for the skin (the 1 I needed bad) so she say come back 2morrow, tomorrow, still NO freakin' pills the lady didn't order the stuff, 3 suffering days later they come in, SO in a nut shell my vacation was a hot horrible tragedy of a mess, now on the flip side I do have these beautiful shell hair pieces to add to my collection, my SLC's daughter Rhea who has beautiful traditional

locks down her back & she is also very creative when it comes to lock styling hopefully she will let me take her picture the next time I get my hair done until then........
Prayin' 4: Mental, Physical & Spiritual Health 4 U & Me.


P.S ,

YALL !!!! before I could even get this posted my Fridge went out :{

Friday, September 18, 2009

Y does love have 2 HURT!!!!

TRUE STORY:
I am a city bus driver, so a young dude all thugged out comes up & ask are those locks?

ME: Yes,

HIM: I love that

ME: Thanks

HIM: Can I touch 'em

ME: Sure











Now why did I say that, y'all he literally took both his hands and grabbed my hair and wrapped them around his hands I almost DIED from the pain of having my hair pulled, after he let go he had the nerve to ask me for my phone number, I hurried up & got him to his stop, & politely told him sorry boo!! I'm married (marriage is a saviour from all the unwanted advances)












Any who I am now in my 15Th month of lock happiness & what I've noticed is that my hair is much heavier, I say this because my roller sets are no longer tight, the curls fall from the weight of my locks and just bounce from the slightest movement of my head (I love it) my length is really starting to show & my locks take twice as long to dry, now I have to at least sit under the dryer for an hour or so to be dry by morning.








On my quest to find the perfect natural hair care product I have ordered a few products from Adiva Naturals I ordered the Soothing Scalp Healer & Rebuilder for scalp and skin issues, as well as the Apple Cider Vinegar Clarifying Herbal Rinse & because they jacked up my order she sent a free gift of Coconut Cream and Avocado Conditioning Shampoo. REVIEW: Hated It !!! the shampoo is drying to the hair, the scalp healer made my skin condition flare even more & it did not remove the caked on dry patches as I'd hoped, the clarifying rinse I thought was OK, on the other hand I have been using Africa's Best Organics Olive Oil Growth Lotion you can buy it at Sally's beauty Supply or try your local beauty store. REVIEW: Loved It !!! it absorbs really fast and is non greasy & a little goes a long way & very inexpensive I like to apply it fresh out the shower on damp hair, it gives your hair the added moisture with out the heavy, greasy, my hair feels dirty feel (know what I mean)! I have another product on the back burner that I am dying to try so stay tuned for that.
And last but not least introducing the newest member of the family, my grandson (dang I'm to young to be a granny) born Aug 1, 2009, the same day we returned from vacation what a welcoming gift, meet Jamoriun Charvon my husband has a hard time saying it so he just calls him Jumanji (LOL)!!!

Until next time & I will try not to go so long with out updating my blog but life has been busy our Hawaiian trip set us back plus we are planning another trip for next year so we are trying to get an early start on being better prepared for the trip so work!! work!! work!! we must.

PRAY'N 4:

Spiritual, Mental,

&

Physical

Health 4 U & Me

Sunday, August 9, 2009

I'M BAAACCKK!!!

Hey guys!! Well the surprise was that I colored my hair, the un surprise was you can't tell, so I have decided to let a professional do it for me (when my $ get un funny) if you know what I mean. Me and hubby just got back from Maui so I won't bore you with talk, talk, talk, talk, but before I go, let me say this, before you leave this earth you have got to visit Hawaii!! I was a little nervous to go at first because I have never flown before, & our trip was 8 hours non- stop but I can say that the view from the plane was the most beautiful view that I ever seen in my life & it was worth it to see the clouds and to see God's green earth at a birds eye view, any who on with the show (above pics a week home & fresh re tight).

Friday, July 24, 2009

Happy Birthday 2 me!!!

Today I celebrate my 37th birthday,and I have
some exciting things about 2 happen 2 my locks, but U will have 2 wait & see,right now me and hubby are off to the sunny beaches of Maui to
celebrate my birthday, our anniversary(4 days),
and a belated honeymoon, so stay tuned.

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Happy Lock Day 2 Me !!!!

R.I.P MICHAEL JACKSON 1958-2009



(having a MJ moment)


Well Blog World I made it to 1 year (6-19-09), WOW! what a journey I have really enjoyed, it's funny people still ask me are those twist or locks, OR your hair has been up in twist a long time when are you going to take them down? Uh never!! I guess I should be happy that my locks stand out from the rest, and that people can't distinguish them from a simple fly by night hair-do. I like when people stare and I really love when they ask me about my "twists" some get disappointed when I tell them they are locks cause they only want a wash & wear 2 week look, then there are those that are really interested about going natural but don't want to do the BC, or don't want traditional dreads, or don't know exactly how they will be perceived by others ( I say who cares!!) so I love being a walking billboard to a naturally unique hair care system. Look how thick my hair is, 2 all you newbies don't sweat them parts they don't last always.





My ends that had unraveled from my cut are finally sealed my hair lays straight now especially after a re tight before it would be every where until I shampooed them, it has more body and movement, next to zero shrinkage, and I decided to wait to color maybe in another 6 or 7 months to make sure my hair is really settled I have yet to experience bunching and I hope I never will, my hair care regimen is still the same, I shampoo once a week, still braid and band to shampoo but I un-band to condition and thoroughly rinse
still use my soft spike curlers on occasions to be truthful I love the feel of my locks so much that for the most part I freestyle.


******POROKERATOSIS******

For those of you that have been following my blog then I know you remember this photo of me and my bald spot, well for years countless Dermatologist and Docs have said I have dandruff well the more aggressive form known as Seborrheic Dermatitis. I have been seeing an African American Derm. named Dr.Raymond Blackburn if you are in the DFW area then you have probably heard of him (Excellent Doc), even though my diagnosis was heart breaking but at least someone actually heard my cry and seriously investigated my situation, "why do people treat you as if you don't know your own body" any who my diagnosis is Hyperplastic Porokeratosis with variants of epidermal Nevus which means:

  • Hyperplastic: too much growth of cells or tissue in a specific area, by itself, hyperplasia is not cancerous, but when there is a lot of growth or the cells are not like normal cells, the risk of cancer developing is greater.

  • Porokeratosis: is a clonal disorder of keratinization characterized by 1 or more atrophic patches surrounded by a clinically and histologically distinctive ridge like border called the cornoid lamella.
  • Epidermal Nevus:
    congenital skin tumors that do not contain melanocytes, which vary widely in appearance, size and distribution, and which are commonly hyperkeratotic.
  • Several risk factors for the development of porokeratosis have been identified; these factors include genetic inheritance, ultraviolet radiation, and immunosuppression.

From what I have researched it is a rare condition that causes pre-cancerous lesions, I am very positive that I developed mine from ultraviolet radiation or more commonly known as the sun, so I wear my hat while I am outdoors, there is no cure and it spreads, so my hair loss is permanent per the Doc but I haven't given up on my Heavenly Doc who has the final say, but in the mean time I am going to try my best to find some kind of something to prevent the rest of my hair from falling out, I firmly believe that our bodies are naturally designed to heal them selves, & I know there is some alternative medicine that will help my body do just that. So PLEASE be careful of the sun put your sun blockers on and your hats & shades, cause you never know!!!

As always pray'n for Mental, Physical, & Spiritual health 4 U & me!!!!

Thursday, May 28, 2009

What A waste

Y'all guess what! In my last post I so cheerfully told you about my DIY experience, well can you guess how many days that lasted? marinate on it while I give you the low low. I had a Dermatologist appointment on 5/12, my original SLC appointment was 5/13, I knew my Derm. was going to either do a biopsy or shoot my scalp up with steroid injections, thinking my scalp would be too sore to let my SLC play in it I cancelled my appointment with her & decided to DIY before my Derm appointment, OK check this out I shampooed on 5/2 & started my DIY on that day as well, Derm on 5/12 which he instructed me to shampoo every week so I shampooed 5/13 only because I had dried blood from the biopsy and the grease he gave me made all the dry caked on flakes slough from my scalp (nasty)!! I kid you not my DIY work slide right down the drain it was like I had never had my hair done at all, several locks were all tangled around each other A HOT MESS!! I was calling my SLC on 5/14 & she got me in on 5/23, so my DIY lasted what 12 days. From now on no one touches my head but Elaine.



My girl Chinue & Ofo's Sisterlocks nominated me for the Creative Blogger award ( I am so honored) so I am to list 7 things I love and then nominate 7 other fellow bloggers so here goes:

I Love my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ with out him life is impossible, (Galatians 2:20) I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.
I love my husband we have been together for 3 years married for 2 years, my family who are truly The Addam's Family if you don't know them google it .
I love Mexican food I can eat it all day every day to bad it don't love me I gain 20lbs just looking at it my husband says I should have married a Mexican man, probably so NOT!!

I Love my life every good & bad thing that has occurred in my life I am thankful that God has allowed me to walk his earth for 36 years all the trials & tribulations that He has allowed me to endure to teach me and mold me for his will, He could have allowed the devil to destroy me when I was out there doing foolishness but He kept me in spite of.
I love fashion & all things that go "BLING" I love to shop, but unfortunately the top designers think plus size people don't want to wear there clothes, I like Michael Kors, DKNY, D&G, Coach, and such.
I love being the Master of this big ship, I feel so empowered to see women doing men's work as well as driving big rigs and motorcycles and working construction
" U go Ladies".
And last but not least I love my sister locks from day one till now I have watched my babies go from good to bad and back to good.
So I nominate:
Praying 4 Mental, Physical, & Spiritual Health 4 U & Me!!

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

All In A 4 Day's Work :{

I am just shy of my 11 month anniversary
(12 more days) YEAH!! I have had my ups, downs but through it all I have truly enjoyed it.
Now if I can get my scalp to fall in sync with my locks I would be sooo happy. If you remember in my last post I had my locks trimmed if you decide to do so in the early stage make sure your locks are completely settled if you don't you will have unraveling and or frayed ends like me.


MY DIY EXPERIENCE:


well I finally tried my hand at doing my own locks, and I must say my locks go off to my SLC Elaine Hill, and any other do it your self er. Amerika!! It took me 4 long days and I don't know how many hours to do my big ol' head, I took every last one of those pills in that medicine cabinet, I had pains in my arms, shoulders, neck, I am surprised that my hands didn't go numb they do at every thing else, I know my biceps grew 12 inch's, I swear fo God they did!! One lock that was not settled before I cut my hair came unraveled and I couldn't get the tutorial Kalia- Dewdrop gave on how to repair a lock so I just three strand braided it, so I guess I have Sisterlocks, Nappy locks, & Braid locks, if you must DIY be careful of the mini locks (hated them) they have a tendency to latch very quickly I just said what the hell and married a whole lot of them I will let my consult deal with it at next re-tight.

Work Station:

I put together a list of must haves to complete the task at hand,

1. you must have a radio if you ol' school a boom box, so you can jam and work.

2. scissors, clips, and some sort of a locking tool, gels, lock cream (4 da non tool assisted locks) my tool of choice is the nappy locks tool, I absolutely loved it was easy to use and very comfortable and it didn't grab at my locks like the SL tool.


3. you need a two way mirror, I was fortunate to have a medicine cabinet that has a pull out mirror that pivots in all directions. And last but not least a chair to sit in I picked up this handy stool at Wimex Beauty it is called a Saddle stool & if you are a hair stylist then you know these things are not cheap but I searched the web and found this beauty for $89.95 & you can custom order it for a higher price, very comfortable and a wide seat for that wide load, and it fits between your legs like a saddle, and the back is removable and adjustable.




Before I started I shampooed & conditioned with Dr. Linda Amersons Hair & Scalp essentials

then I rinsed with an ACV (apple cider vinegar) that I picked up from the health food store this stuff is great it really made my hair really soft my hair feels like expensive yarn, now this is raw unfiltered vinegar so it is really dark and has stuff floating around in it called cobweb or "mother", and it smells really bad.

This particular brand has a book on the uses of raw vinegar it costs around $8.00, it claims to kill bottle bacillus, great for dandruff and helps to restore your scalp back to it's natural PH level.



THE END RESULTS:

Its good to know that if I needed to I could do it (did I tell U I accidentally cut off one of my locks)but DIY is not my friend and I will continue to let Elaine pamper me in 3 hours, I don't feel like it was worth my time and energy to do it every 6wks. WHAT DO YA THINK!!




IN UN-RELATED NEWS:

I bought these cute little bobby pins at the local drug store per watching this young lady on You Tube talk about them, well needles to say THEY AIN'T for locks, when I tell you that thang got stuck in my head I almost died, so If you choose to use these be careful, if you have locks and used these and had no problems then tell me what I did wrong so I can get my 4 dollars worth.



Recently I decided to put my old worn out cell phone to rest and up-graded to the Blackberry Curve 8330 and I must say I love it , when I had my old phone I was going to invest in a PDA to keep track of my personal and email addresses and now I don't have to this phone holds so much personal info and now I get all my emails while I am away from the computer, any who what I really wanted to show you are these really cool skins that you can purchase for your phone for $19.99 Best Buy let me sample mines for free for buying the phone.You can purchase your very own for any type of phone that you own at skinit. Great theft deterrent huh!!



To all my mother's:


HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY






******* *****************AS ALWAYS***********************



Praying for good Mental, Physical,& Spiritual health 4 U & Me

Sunday, April 5, 2009

A Cut Above The Rest

I put 2gether a few collages to showcase a few styles that I wore before I did .............. U have 2 wait & see!!

I tried my hand at A lock Hawk I think I did OK but could use some more practice
& of course U know I looooove my updo's


A few Hair ties that I ordered from Naturally Sophia (link on side bar)


DIY'R ? Who knows but I ordered my nappy locks tool just in case a sistah got 2 do what a sistah got 2 do!! (size small)
Did I tell U my nutty step-kid is making me a granny at the young tender age of 36 SAY IT AIN'T SO (I don't even have gray hair yet)!!

*******DRUM ROLL PLEASE*******

April 1st I had my umpteenth re-tight with Elaine that women uses some damn good shampoo or her hands are made of butter cause my locks are so soft, shinny, and full of moisture when she's done (don't feel like that when I shampoo, what could be the problem!!!!)
Any who I had Elaine even out my locks for me, what I was expecting was not what I got but when I got home and reworked some things I can say I am happy now. My curly Q's are gone and now I can better monitor my growth, and I can start my locks with a fresh new color, & best of all it's EVEN!!

PRAYING FOR GOOD MENTAL, PHYSICAL, & SPIRITUAL HEALTH
4 U & ME!!

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Still knot grown @ 9 months

I have reached my 9 month mark & I really don't have much to blog about so I will just entertain you with photos (don't mind my torn dress that's my lounge & clean the house dress). A few things that I have noticed is that i still have a lot of shrinkage in areas I figured that out while trying to curl my hair some don't fit around my soft spikes anymore, my locks are definitely in the teenage stage, very unruly, and lately more bad hair days then good. It just hit me that back in DEC. of 08 I took some photos of some really ugly locks that I was concerned about well 3 months later see how they have progressed :

and here ( I hope i grabbed the right locks if not these beastly locks are no more that's for sure)


So if you have those don't worry they will seal and did you notice the length it has really grown, when I do a strand by strand analysis I can see the growth but when I see the big picture i don't see the growth. A few things that I don't like about my locks are that I have micro locks in the front and they are so tiny I think they need to be combined & they unravel like mad crazy but I guess GiGi knew best since my hair is thinner at the top then the back. Speaking of back is where I have noticed more maturity and less to none slippage. As far as my grooming I have started to wash every week to see If I could combat some of the flaking and itching, I know I have about three different shampoos and conditioners that I have added to my collection haven't found the winner quite yet. Thanks to Kalia Dewdrop and her tutorial on how to DIY I will be ordering the Nappy locks tool as soon as my check comes and see if I can keep that hairline in shape and just maybe if I get really good cut out that consultant fee all together. Y'all stay blessed and continual prayers for good mental, spiritual, and physical health 4 me & U.

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Human "WHAT U SAY" ?



Human Demodex Mites !!

In a previous post titled a journey to remember you may recall that I shared with you my hair loss secret, well while receiving hair treatments from a Trichcologist she explained to me that I suffered from Seborrheic Dermatitis which was the cause of my hair loss, but that diagnoses never sat well with me as well as the countless other times the Dermatologist called it Dandruff, Why? for one my bald spot burns and itches and it is painful to the touch, for 2 I get extreme acne and flaking , as well as headaches in that area and I always feel like something is crawling in my head. This is just a theory (or I'm in serious denial) but the problem occurred while wearing hair extension could it be possible that the hair may have contained some type of hair mite ???? And has been living in my hair follicles all these years, HMMM!! While searching the web for shampoos that kill bacteria I came across this website Demodex Solutions and here's a tad bit of info I wanted to share click the link to get more info.


1. What are Demodex mites?
Demodex Mites, also known as face mites, are not so well known by the public. They are parasites which live on the face and in the hair follicles of humans. They can badly damage the facial skin of humans, usually starting at middle age when the immune system is weakened and their population has increased.
There are two existing types: the longer kind, Demodex folliculorum, which live in the hair follicles and the short ones, Demodex brevis, which live in the sebaceous glands.

2. Where do Demodex live?

The mites can live on all body parts wherever there are hair roots and sebaceous glands however, they are most prevalent in the facial area, especially the nose, forehead, chin, and cheeks. These areas have the most favorable living and breeding conditions and provide an optimum temperature for them to thrive.


The Demodex folliculorum mite can also live in the eye lash roots and can be the reason for blepharitis, itching and infections. The hair follicles from the scalp are also often infected with itching as a result.


The mouth of these mites is like a very sharp needle that can directly sting into the cells to absorb nutrition. They like a wet and warm environment and become the most active in the dark. There are five stages in the life cycle. After mating on the surface of the skin, they go back into it and lay eggs, taking bacteria with them and excreting wastes and secretions, laying eggs and dying within its layers. After death, their corpses become liquid and decompose inside the skin.

3. What do Demodex mites look like?

Demdex Brevis mite

Demodex Folliculorum mite


4. Are Demodex Mites contagious?

Yes, demodex mites are very contagious. They are acquired through physical contact with infected persons; for example through kissing, hugging, using the same towels etc. However, not everyone who is infected has problems with them. It is a fact that the majority of infected people, show no signs of any disease, from the infected people, only around 10% are getting skin problems. This may be due to a healthier immune system and/or because of numerous other reasons which are not so well known for the moment.Infected people with no visible signs can also transmit the mites to other people.Once infected, it can take months or even years before the signs of infection become visible.

The Parasite:

Demodex mites live inside the sebaceous glands and hair follicles, sucking nutrients from the hair roots and damaging the cell walls. After mating they burrow into the skin, laying eggs, introducing bacteria and infection to the skin. Throughout the five phases of their life cycle, these mites destroy the skin by excreting wastes and secretions, laying eggs and dying within its layers. After death, their corpses become liquid and decompose inside the skin.


Research indicates that human demodex is a conditional-pathogenic parasite. The disorder occurs as the result of a large infestation of demodex mites on the skin, combined with a weakened immune system. The physical, chemical and mechanical stimulation of the skin from the mites can cause the immune system to react in extreme ways. Local allergic inflammation, erythema, papules and pustules are all reactions by the immune system.


5. What are the most obvious signs from demodex activity?

There are numerous different signs of demodex activity. This is not a complete list, rather it contains some of the most common cases.

One of the most obvious signs of the condition is a itching, crawling sensation on the face or (and) in the scalp. Often, the pores on the nose, forehead, chin and cheeks, become visibly larger. At a further stage, acne can develop, after some time, the facial skin can become red in places (rosacea) enlarging and damaging the capillaries, thickening the nose (brandy nose),widened pores. etc.


*Tickling sensation on the face & scalp, especially in the evening and night. This is the highest period of activity, usually when they mate.

*Hair loss. In some cases, premature hair loss can be linked with extended demodex folliculorum activity.
*Acne. Forms include pimples, pustules, papules, popular eruption etc.

*Itching eye lashes. Many times the eyelashes are thinning and falling out.

*Itching eye brows.

*Excess facial oils.

*Demodedic rosacea.

**NOTE THIS LIST HAS BEEN SHORTENED & COMPILED**
6. Is there treatment?
Yes, there is treatment for the mites go to Demodex Solutions to view available products.
Because I am all for finding a solution to my hair loss at any cost, I purchased what they call DS lotion a shampoo is also available.
& just in case after all it is Seborrheic Derm. I also ordered from Ensibo the shampoo is called Follicleanse and it claims to be all natural it comes with a conditioner and scalp lotion, you can also check out Healthy Hair Plus for other bacteria fighting products or any other hair & scalp conditions you may be experiencing.

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Customer Appreciation luncheon 2009

Where did I spend my Valentine's Day at? Gigi's Customer Appreciation luncheon of course, it was hosted by Tafi Adgers who works along side GiGi, Tafi is now a certified SL but they still have her listed as a trainee, Tafi updated us on the new additions and services that she and GiGi added to their shop, as well as what's new at Sisterlocks headquarters all I will say is they are going to start their own line Of SL hair color so look out for that. Blaqkofi informed us that she will start her Sl training so show her some love on that and Gigi has an upcoming Re-tight class if anyone is interested I know I am!! That's the word on the streets of DFW now I will entertain u with photo's of some beautiful locks and make sure you check out the star attraction at the very end U go Ma!!

Sunday, February 8, 2009

A Journey 2 Remember

Sisterlocks a natural hair care system that allows you the freedom and flex ability of a relaxer but with out the harmful effects of heat and chemicals:

Well I am locking my way into my 8 month anniversary & I wanted to kinda give you a glimpse from where I started to where I am now. It all started with my perm which I have had for most of my life then the unthinkable happened while wearing cornrows something kept burning my scalp in one little spot thinking the sun was just cooking the grease I had on my scalp, but much to my surprise when I took the braids out this is what i found of course it didn't start out that big this is 3yrs of loosing hair. I have been to 3 Doctors, 3 Dermatologists,1 Trichcologist & they all tell me its dandruff ( I have never had dandruff in my life)or Seborrheic Dermatitis & this is the only area that it has affected my scalp.There are no flakes and if you look at the pic closely you can see white granules that grow out of my hair follicles and surrounds the hair shaft, they use to come out with shampooing but now that I have locks they have no way of sliding along the hair shaft. In the process of loosing my hair I made the conscience decision to stop perming not knowing if that was playing a part in my hair loss so on Feb 10,2006 I B/C'dI loved the freedom of having no chemicals and the maintenance was next to zero, but the bigger my fro got the more time consuming combing and detangling my hair became and it got to the point of where do I go from here? back to a perm (hell no!!) do I lock (yes) traditional that is, I wore them for seven months, not wanting to get married in dreads (due to lack of styling options) I picked them out (photo shows 7 months of new growth) and got micro braids (hated it!!), so now what!! surfing the net one day and I came across sisterlocks, humm looks good! sounds good! that's the natural hair care system for me, on June 19, 2008 my locks were born GiGi did my initial install we did a one day sitting, here are some comparison photos from day one & 5 months laternotice that the spacing is gone it's fuller and there are curly Q's or open end locks. The two photo's below are at 6 (on top) and 7 (on bottom) monthsI also wanted to show you exactly what a closed lock looks like compared to an open end lock.

CLOSED on top OPEN on bottom.

What am i still doing as far as grooming and maintenance I am still doing my or went back to my braid and banding and still using my Dread Head HQ shampoo.
No matter what locking option you choose know that it is a long up hill process, know that no two heads are alike and your locks wont look like mines and vice versa, God created us uniquely and divinely different, so be patient, be good to your hair as well as your spiritual, mental and physical well being.